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While wellness products and rituals can create a sense of control and calm, the real mental wellness comes from a balance of shelf care and self care.
Shelf care can soothe, but self-care sustains us.
Walk into any wellness store and you’ll see rows of tinctures, serums, supplements, and herbal powders – all promising balance in a bottle. It’s comforting to believe that healing can be measured in millilitres and tracked like a routine. But is buying wellness the same as living it?
“Wellness products can feel like control, but control is not the same thing as care,” explains Mallika Timblo, founder of Terrapy. “Shelf care may look like we’re doing something, but true care begins when we slow down enough to listen.”
Shelf Care Isn’t Shallow; But It’s Not the Whole Story
Shelf care – the skincare, the sprays, the carefully arranged wellness tools – isn’t bad. It can be soothing. Rituals around products can create moments of calm. The problem comes when they become substitutes rather than support systems.
“Shelf care is Instagram-able. It can be tracked, reordered, and shared. But you can’t TikTok your way into emotional regulation. You can’t bottle boundary-setting.” Mallika says.
A good skin day may get likes, but choosing patience over reactivity rarely makes it online. Yet, it’s these invisible choices that often shape our well-being most.
The Invisible Work of Self-Care
Unlike shelf care, self-care doesn’t come with a label or a hashtag. It’s small, unseen, and often unglamorous.
“Self-care is the wind-down before you scroll. It’s the pause before saying yes to something that drains you,” Mallika explains. “It’s the invisible maintenance that keeps you whole.”
For many, especially women, self-care is ongoing emotional labour that is necessary for survival but rarely acknowledged. It’s less about looking good and more about staying grounded in a world that constantly pulls us away from ourselves.
The Fix Isn’t a Fix Without Feeling
The wellness industry often asks: What should I take? But the real question is: What do I need to feel?
“That nightly supplement won’t do much if your nervous system is depleted. No capsule will do your emotional labor for you. We’ve turned healing into hustling. But urgency isn’t care – intention is,” explains Mallika.
When Shelf Meets Self
The truth? It doesn’t have to be either shelf care or self-care. The most powerful wellness happens when the two work together.
“Products are effective when they support self-care, not replace it,” Mallika says. “It’s not either/or. It’s both – done with clarity, not urgency.”
Shelf care can soothe the surface, but self-care sustains us from within. And when they meet, wellness becomes less about chasing fixes and more about truly living well.
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